Parenting Psychology – The relationship between parents and kids

Parent-child psychology is the joyous experience one can express as it is light, independent, and free from any social obligation like a feather. The bond between them can only be felt through their heart. Well then, how can a parent develop an emotional bond with a child?

 

Accountability: Parents are accountable for their kid's behavior. Kids try to follow their parents so it is most important for the parent to portray the highest values in front of them. This will help the kids to build a connection with the values taught to them.

 We cannot expect our children to study in the evening when their parents spend their evening watching TV.  It will create a negative impact upon the child.

 

Spending time with the kids: Listening to our children and attending to their innocent queries help to strengthen the relationship between them. After getting along with the stern external environment, every child aspires to have someone with them with whom they can register their childish complaints. Moreover, if parents spend some time attending to their homework and engaging in their studies, they tend to perform better. 

 

 

 

 Growth-Mind: Every child has a growth mindset. They get impulsive when it comes to work and achievements. They often mistake grading themselves from other's points of view. Children should be taught how to be humble and accept their present with a vision to work hard, prepare well and build their future.

 

 

 

  

Competition: Instead of competing with others if every child is taught to compete with their past, a child will become better individuals with vibrant personalities.

 

 

Lessons: Parents should always allow their children to dream as dreams boost them up to work harder in life pursue a successful career ahead. In this process of developing the vision of the kids, the parents should assign some responsibilities to the kids which will teach them the most important lesson of life i.e., the theory of scarcity and theory of time.

 

Change does not come over time, small baby steps become the foundation to a new revolution. The entire process of a child’s birth till its adulthood is a victim of time and stages. Every child is special to their parents but they become a boon to society when they learn the ancient art of survival. i.e., building up a social network, pursuing a successful career, etc. This is how a parent and child psychology synchronize themselves. Parenting is an art of self-instincts, mutual understanding, and self-reliance.